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Megan Locker
Hello Everyone
Caroline Dotts
Welcome! Please tell the group your name, institution, and how many kids (if any!) you have at home with you!
Jenny Welnick
Jenny Welnick - Portland State. 2 boys 8 & 6.
Stefani Plummer
Stefani Plummer California Baptist University one child (but feels like three!)
Janice DeMonsi
I have one son - 12 years old!
Patty Williams
Patty Williams, University of New England, 2 kids (8 and 6)
Natalie Hawkins
Southern Illinois University Edwardsville - 2 kids under 2
Chris Schmoldt
Chris Schmoldt - West Virginia University 1 boy
Shari Landmark
Shari Landmark, SDSTATE University. 4 kiddos
Chris Wermie
Chris Wermie - University of Regina (Canada). 3 kids ages 2, 5 & 7
Blake Simpfenderfer
Blake Simpfenderfer - University of Vermont 2 boys 3.5 and 11 months
Jessica Coleman
Hey everyone! Jessica Coleman from UWF and I have two kids, a 2 year old and 8 month old.
Mitch Wiltbank
Mitch Wiltbank, Oregon State, Boy (5), Girl (3)
Jeff Logsdon
Jeff Logsdon - University of Cincinnati- 1 son
Justin Cato
Justin Cato - A&M-Commerce. 2 boys, 11 & 10
Elizabeth Lasker
Hi! Elizabeth University of Maryland, Baltimore 2 kids (5 almost 6 and 8)
Jamie Grenoble
Jamie Grenoble - University of Wisconsin-Milwaukee, 2 boys - 1 year old and 4.5
Staci Snyder
Hello Everyone, Staci Snyder, UCLA, 3 year old daughter
Sarah Schrenk
Sarah Schrenk, University of South Alabama, one daughter age 6.
Erin Wells
Hi! Erin Wells from UT Austin. I have one little one, Scarlet who is 21 months. Both my husband and I are working from home
Jennifer Wood
Jen Wood- Miami University Ohio 2 boys 8 and 5
Jami Brossette
I'm Jami Brossette from LSUS, and only 1 little man! Just turned one in February!
Chad Caldwell
Chad and Lisa Caldwell - one 3 year old and another on the way
Brian Beam
Brian Beam, UConn, one 2 year old...
Kayela Tidrick
Kayela Tidrick 1 baby boy 3 months
Angela Fitzpatrick
Angie - 3 kids = 13 mos, 3.5 yrs, and 25yrs (was a teen mom)
Jess Wagner
Jess Wagner - 4 kids (3 teenagers and 1 who thinks she's 21 but she just hit double digits lol
Erin Sanders
Erin - Appalachian State University - 2 (2 yr. old & 5 yr. old)
Larissa Brown
Larissa, Georgia State, 1 age 3
Kelli Rockwell
Kelli Rockwell Georgia Tech 2 boys (1 & 3)
Kaitlin Ganss
Kaitlin, two kiddos ages 7 and 4 .. work in the developmental disabilities world ❤️
Faith DeNardo
Faith DeNardo - Bowling Green State University - 1 son age 3
Alyssa O'Keefe
Alyssa O'Keefe - Emory University. 1 nine month old son
Sara Luelloff
Hi everyone! Sara Luelloff, University of Wisconsin-Milwaukee. One 2-year old daughter.
Samantha Villarreal
Samantha Villarreal, UTRGV, 2 Boys ( 1 and 2)
April Flint
April Flint, Emory University, twins 4th graders
Tanya Reynoldson
Tanya Reynoldson University of Regina 2 kids
Nicole Turner
Nicole Turner- Kennesaw State Univ 1 baby, 8 months
Sarah Snyder
Sarah- Curry College, one kiddo 10 months!
Megan Locker
Megan Locker from Brock University in St. Catharines, CANADA1 boy, 1 girl
LaTosha Cleaver
Tosha UT Tyler. 2 boys
Lisa Williamson
Lisa Williamson, University of Georgia 1, 10 month old daughter
Lori Tyson-Jamison
Wake Forest University - 3 year old energetic boy
Kristi Shiver
Kristi - University of North Georgia , Dahlonega GA. 1 son, 4 years old.
Mike Przydzial
Mike Przydzial - Grand Valley State University - 1 kid (4 months)
Ashley Artist - Iowa State
Iowa State - 3 boys the that are 4, 3, and 9 months
Rachael Garrett Canfield
Rachael Garrett Canfield- UPenn, 5 yr old daughter
Phil Locante
Phil- Fairmont State. 1 girl 18 months
Bill Singleton
Bill Singleton from Oakland University. I have 2 girls, 1 in first grade and the other in pre-school
Lexi Chaput
Lexi Chaput - University of Michigan; 4 month old boy
Clint Jones
Clint - St. Edward's in Austitn. Thank you for thinking of us dads too! 4yr old boy, 2 yr old girl, and a 3rd on the way!
Barbara Zackowski
Barbara Zackowski - one daughter, 9 years old
Dean Bowen
Dean, Worcester State U (MA)- boys: 5, 1
Rachel O'Mara
Rachel O'Mara - University of Houston - 2 girls 1 year old and 7 year old
Dana Lopez
I am Dana - Wake Forest Univ. I have two boys - 5 year old preschooler and 3
Alexandria Luneke
Alex Luneke, Penn State University - 4mo old daughter
Walter Kolis
Walter: Emory University, 2 kids, ages 2.5 and 1
Mary Catherine Martinez
MC Martinez, InnoSoft (Fusion), 4 yo daughter.
Michelle Fitzgerald
Michelle - UCF, 2 boys 14 and 12
Lauren Easter
Lauren Easter - Missouri State - 10 mo old baby girl
Andrea De Lei
Hi All! Andrea: Oregon State, 10 (4th grade) daughter
Whitney Boroski
Whitney Boroski: Michigan Tech University, 2.5 year old little boy.
Drew - Plymouth State
Hi all, Drew, Plymouth State in NH, 9 & 6 year old boys in 3rd and 1st grade.
Caroline Dotts
Loving seeing your kids in your video chat!!!! :)
Marie VanBuskirk
Hi - Marie, Rochester Hills, MI. I have 3 2nd graders and a 5th grader.
Rachael Decker
Love seeing all the kiddos faces!
Caroline Dotts
Marie - Triplets?!?
Amanda Reardon
Amanda, Coordinator of Marketing and Management, YSU. 20 year old college student at home, 18 year old HS junior, 3rd grader, 2nd grader and 3.5 year old.
Rachael Decker
Attached is a pdf of the report for you all to check out if you'd like.
Angela Fitzpatrick
Awesome! TY Rachel!
Larissa Brown
thanks Rachel
Rachael Decker
And this is just a snapshot of the data we collected as part of our presentation for NIRSA. We're hopeful to be able to provide the full presentation sometime in the near future!
Brian Beam
Too much TV to distract from 3 of us working at home...
Larissa Brown
we put up a whiteboard in house with red “do not disturb” work times.
Dana Lopez
today it is not working.............haha........with conference calls I typically take the kids outside so they can play and I can listen to webinars or work check-ins
Rachael Decker
Larissa, that is a great idea!
Michelle Fitzgerald
Having enough laptops has worked well well. Kids just started back to school today and it's great for us all to have a device to use.
April Lovett
Routine for kids helps us each day
Mary Catherine Martinez
what doesn't work: trying to do it all at once. switching back and forth between my 4yo and work makes for a terrible day. carve out time for one or the other.
Stefani Plummer
LOTS of breaks...i space meetings so I can do school/activity in between work calls/meetings
Elizabeth Lasker
schedules for each kid
Whitney Boroski
What's working: Taking Breaks multiple times throughout the day and going outside. Also, having a discussion with my husband the night before to go over meetings and when we can share care.
Natalie Hawkins
Currently at home by myself…husband works at hospital…every day is different depending on moods
April Flint
Setting a visual schedule for the kids so that they can manage their own time.
Bill Singleton
I have been trying to get up before the kids to get a quick workout and start working. Usually get about 3 solid hours before they really get up and moving. Then I get a little time while they are eating lunch. Once my wife gets home I get time to work without any interruptions
Sarah Snyder
My husband and I split the days- I work in the morning and my husband takes the afternoons. But are flexible as our colleagues don't always follow our schedule.
Janice DeMonsi
Everyday is a new day - some days it works letting everyone know when the calls are - other times this does not work. The hardest are the work hours during the day. I curve out my time before all are awake
Whitney Boroski
Sarah-My husband and I have been doing something similar. :)
Kristi Shiver
Cosmic Yoga is great to occupy kids. My 4 year old is also taking classes on outschool.com. Then my husband and I tag team outside time, chores, etc.
Dean Bowen
Working- giving them school work in workbooks (learning). Separate "work" spaces. Late night work (after bedtime). Dedicated time to not be working/break time. Not Working- They're kids... enough said hahaha
Kaitlin Ganss
having a schedule and routine for school weeks has been so helpful! my kids thrive off of a predictable schedule and routine and they look forward to it
Elizabeth Lasker
trying to keep school work to only from 7am-12pm sometimes works most of the time it takes longer.
Jamie Grenoble
Lots of video chats without the camera and on mute. Also trying to get as much done as possible during nap times.
Jennifer Wood
Making schedules for both my kids with school work and play. When I have important meetings they get tablet time.
Erin Wells
We are doing well. My husband and I are switching on and off with who is watching the little one. We are trying to cut screen time down, but that is hard right now. I feel like we have watched Frozen 2 like 50ish times!!!!
Brian Beam
Were you the one from the commercial?
Michelle Harvey
I try to work an hour then play with my son (6 year old) for an hour. He gets to choose the activity for the hour if he has been quiet.
Jami Brossette
We have an office that I stay in and my husband stays in the living room. We usually put him in our LSU Game room with a BUNCH of toys and he stays occupied for a good bit. I use his baby camera in the game room and use his baby monitor to keep an eye on him.
Jami Brossette
one year old by the way
Mike Przydzial
Wife is a nurse who works 3 days/week. I take advantage of full days when she is off - mostly meetings/conference calls. Days when I am home by myself have been difficult. I take advantage of my son's naps and try to get more work done in the evening when my wife is home.
Drew - Plymouth State
The key is to go easy on myself. I’m doing the best I can with the kids and we are having fun doing all of this as a team. Get as much done as we can and go to spend time and recreate and play with them too. Sometimes I’m working more throughout the day but the on and off is a good way to make the best of it.
Shannon Niedzwicki
My partner is not at home so being honest with your supervisor and prioritizing what you can do and what you can. Sometimes we are doing homework at night, and sometimes I'm finishing work at night. You have to be easy on yourself and do what you can.
Larissa Brown
love the idea of a Zoom play date
Lexi Chaput
My husband is back at work so I've made it clear to my supervisor and my team that I'm not going to be able to work full days. I'm fortunate that our university gave each of us 80 hours of COVID time to deal with things associated with the virus, including day care closures so I'm taking advantage of those hours and not feeling bad about having to walk away from my computer during the day
Caroline Dotts
COVID time? That's amazing!
Kristi Shiver
My son has made our poor dog his best friend!
Andrea De Lei
We have a general School Schedule on a huge white board that kinda mirrors my kids typical school schedule but with longer breaks in-between. End it with break time and then a family or fiend zoom call
Clint Jones
we saw the same thing with our kids and being sad. tried to do some zoom meetings with their friends to keep some normalcy.
Clint Jones
usually just 2-3 a week
April Lovett
Clint- that's smart!
Erin Wells
We can’t beat ourselves up with extra screen time right now!!!
April Lovett
Erin Wells- agree!
Mary Catherine Martinez
lol! so much screen time. there are A LOT of fun educational apps for all ages, too!
Mary Catherine Martinez
and plenty of junky games for other times 😊
Ashley Artist - Iowa State
We are not made to be stay at home parents, working parents, and teachers all in one. These are three different jobs! You are all doing amazing and this is so hard!!
Elizabeth Lasker
Ashley - thank you!
April Lovett
Ashley Artist- love love love that!
Dean Bowen
not all screen time is bad :)
Jamie Grenoble
I feel like we are constantly feeling guilty about something!! It is so hard not to beat ourselves up! I know I'm always constantly trying to give 100% to everything so not being able to do that has been really rough to get used to.
Justin Cato
we found "how to draw" videos on youtube, the boys are loving that for art time
Elizabeth Lasker
Totally agree 3 jobs is a lot. I just hope I do 1 of them well!
Whitney Boroski
Ashley Artist-Love love that! Yes to more grace!
Rachel O'Mara
Giving grace to ourselves is so important!
Justin Cato
I think that may be the ones the boys are using! they're really loving it, and have found they're pretty decent artists!
Elizabeth Lasker
Cosmic kids yoga is so much fun for the kids and I love it too. It helps to do something with the kids that is fun!
Jamie Grenoble
I have a basket of toys for my 1 year old that I only pull out when I have video conferences. And PSA Target had board games buy 2 get one free yesterday (I think it is going through tomorrow) so I ordered a bunch for my 4.5 year old. That way that is his reward when he lets me get work done without interruption.
April Lovett
Great idea!
Janice DeMonsi
The other thing I heard that has helped me with mom guilt- our job is to provide and it is not always to make the kids happy- I get from my 12 year old all day - I am bored, and then I give options & then I still get I am bored. Sometimes our kids will be bored and not happy and that is okay!
Michelle Harvey
I try to remember that this is the chance for me to show / teach my son about grit perseverance gratitude and hope. These are things that we can tak about each day
Brittany Rejda
We haven't limited screen time but we have a list of approved "educational" shows and games they can play between 8am-2pm which is our "school day"
Caroline Dotts
Yes, we love Cosmic Yoga! and Go Noodle has been a lot of fun
April Lovett
Janice- yes
Andrea De Lei
Ologies podcast with Alie Ward
Mary Catherine Martinez
Michael's also has awesome sales online to pick up at the store! so many kid crafts. my 4yo now enjoys Perler Beads!
Amanda Reardon
Thanks for sharing Stefani.
Stefani Plummer
YES, Janice!!
Caroline Dotts
Janice - agreed!
Larissa Brown
Yes, my first week was really intense. trying to fill all 8 hours with tasks and feeling like kiddo wasn’t getting enough attention.
April Lovett
All- how are you managing pressure to perform while at home with kids?
Elizabeth Lasker
Check in meetings with Supervisors is really helpful. They have been very supportive.
Dana Lopez
My boss has been very clear that is about work output and what you are committed to working on and not by the number of hours you are sitting at your computer. The expectation is not 40 hours
Dean Bowen
getting into a better routine now, setting expectations with staff was crucial (of course it was a zoom call)
Caroline Dotts
My 5 year old doesn't understand "work from home" so she always wants to play
Brian Beam
Does changing a poopy diaper just now when he woke up count as work?
April Lovett
Brian YES
Stefani Plummer
yes, brian..yes...
Rachael Decker
Yes! That counts as the time you had to walk to the printer :)
Larissa Brown
Brian, Yes
Caroline Dotts
YES, always, brian. Work X 2
Natalie Hawkins
Feeling the pressure as well for documenting all work during the day and keeping other staff accountable as well.
Clint Jones
Brian doing the dirty work!
Mary Catherine Martinez
I have worked from home for 5 years now (for InnoSoft/Fusion ;) ). but even in my case, I have issues with daycare closing because someone is showing covid-19 symptoms. so my boss has been extra flexible although to be honest, he has always been flexible. I'm seeing it much more with my colleagues who were working from the office and are now from home.
Stefani Plummer
Caroline, mine struggled with that as well. I try to setup activities for him to do while I am working. and I send him outside for "recess" A LOT
Lauren Easter
The first week was absolutely crazy. Just trying to get staff online and comfortable working remotely. Still unclear about expectations, but trying to make sure that there is output and engaging my staff. Husband is a firefighter so hes home for 48 but im still the primary caregiver on who can handle the 10mo old when shes having a fit (teething, acid reflux, separation anxiety, etc) so I am still figuring it out
Sarah Schrenk
I feel pressure to show our relevance now. When this is over, the whole institution will have budget cuts. A lot of work now is showing why Campus Rec should be considered for funding/how it's relevant in the future.
Caroline Dotts
Yes, Stefani, same!
Pixel 2 XL
My first week was intense too Rachael! Lots of pressure to get programs virtual
Drew - Plymouth State
I’ve had a tough time of figuring out the difference between work time and personal time because it is all blending together right now. I can keep my kids focused on their school work but then I’m happy to take some time with them to play basketball or football or whatever. I may be going back to work stuff later and scheduling later meetings but for the most part I’ve made the best of it
April Lovett
Drew- yes, this is me too
Stefani Plummer
great work Drew
Brian Beam
Supervisors without kids just don't get it....
Janice DeMonsi
I think this is the hardest part of all this - they are stuck home, we are stuck home and it is trying to balance it all out. I think each day what helps is I am trying to say these are the times I am NOT available - but before that I can work from the car at the skate park (if there is 5 or less kids) and then today I have meetings all afternoon so we played a board game before this call for 30 minutes. The work will get done & I will do the best I can - I am the director of our unit so I think I can set that for my staff within our division we did set up a happy hour call with the other directors that have kids so we could all talk about how we were balancing this out. Our university did tell us we could use sick time to care for the kids at home as needed. I have not decided to do this but have done a couple hours on the weekends as a way to balance it all out.
Mary Catherine Martinez
our bosses at the company offered for everyone to check out their headsets, keyboards, office chairs, etc if they wanted to do they could be more comfortable working at home.
Larissa Brown
I have not yet had the conversation yet. waiting to figure out what the new normal will be.
Janice DeMonsi
Agree - we are all emailing at random times and no reply needed.
Natalie Hawkins
It was encouraged to take emergency COVID sick time if you couldn’t work your full time hours
Jami Brossette
same natalie
Blake Simpfenderfer
Agreed Chris!
Rachel O'Mara
My 7 year old has said she is sad that we can't play - she doesn't understand yet that we have to work. The majority of the pressure really has come around checking in with the staff and making sure tasks are completed. I had a conversation with my supervisor and she was really flexible with giving me freedom to determine when works best for me to accomplish things and check in.
April Lovett
Natalie- could you jump on and talk about that?
Natalie Hawkins
My work day is now flexed 7am-9pm
Natalie Hawkins
I got screaming kids at home April....
April Lovett
Got ya sis
Mary Catherine Martinez
One of the biggest things that helps is emailing or otherwise communicating to keep everyone updated. Have a weekly full staff Zoom call even if it's a quick pulse check. have daily team calls, say 15 minutes, just to give everyone that set contact to expect.
Caroline Dotts
LOL Natalie!
Dana Lopez
For folks who are "on-demand" right now - social media marketing, fitness director - I suggested they have 5-7 hours per week (virtual office hours) that they will be committed to answering the phone or being available by email. We can't expect them to be available everytime we are working so we need to know when they are
Andrea De Lei
institution specific
Jamie Grenoble
I think it really makes a difference if you work at an institution that is understanding of this. It is a shame when there is a guilt associated with balancing work/family life
Jess Wagner
UNL has 160 hours
Natalie Hawkins
Ours was state
Janice DeMonsi
Also, do not schedule zoom back to back - it is nice to have a break between with the kid.
Caroline Dotts
I don't think GA has done this yet
Jamie Grenoble
We have to at my institution. So much ANXIETY
Caroline Dotts
Janice - yes!
Andrea De Lei
Kinda/Yes
Brian Beam
We are monitored by our shared calendars...
Kristi Shiver
No Georgia doesn't have Covid time
Larissa Brown
yes, we are required to
Drew - Plymouth State
Yes, we do an activity long. Doesn’t have to be hour by hour but just the major things we are working on
Clint Jones
turning in an activity log each week is ridiculous! we were asked to put together a project list that we would be working on but not a list of what we do each week
Dean Bowen
yes, weekly bullets of what was worked on AND accomplished. In 13 years I've never had to do this...
Caroline Dotts
Kristi - figured. :(
Sara Luelloff
yes, we have to submit a tasks/accomplishments log every week
Jamie Grenoble
Every single week I'm freaking out about whether or not I have enough bullet points of tasks completed for the day.
Janice DeMonsi
That is ridiculous I am sorry you have to do an activity log
Kristi Shiver
We are required to turn in a log every friday
Lori Tyson-Jamison
WE have a Status Report COVID-19 with weekly bullets of progress and what we have completed.
Stefani Plummer
yes, Jamie...same
April Lovett
Weekly logs sound like crazy, anxiety-inducing messes
Pixel 2 XL
Yes, at BGSU we have to submit a weekly log
Justin Cato
weekly logs.....that's awful :(
Clint Jones
wow, just wow.
Nicole Turner
We have not been tasked with a log, but are tracking just in case we're asked to show our work
Erin Sanders
We have been asked to be available M/W 9am-11am and then work when we can.
Caroline Dotts
Nicole - same for Tech
Jami Brossette
i send in an email to our director of everything i do for the week at the end of the week. emails i send, projects i start, and at the bottom of the email i have a list of things that i still need to do.
Rachel O'Mara
We have to turn in a work plan with what we are working on for the week and then also have to put a status for the one previous about what has been completed
Jami Brossette
Our director didn't require it, but it's to keep her in the loop of what's going on
Larissa Brown
Yes Rachel, I’m logging everything
Natalie Hawkins
it has been recommended to log everything
Jeffrey Schmitt
Luckily we have not had to do a work log at UWF
Janice DeMonsi
FMLA has been expanded to care for kids that are not in school - this is from the US Department of Labor- you could take this time like when we had our babies
April Lovett
We haven't had to either at FSU but I think it's smart to track just in case
Stefani Plummer
we retracted all vacation requests
Chris Schmoldt
We do not have to log hours, but have a list of projects
Natalie Hawkins
no. We were encouraged to need to delegate to others if someone was taking COIVD time
Rachel O'Mara
Stefani - does this mean that people are not allowed to take vacation at this time?
Andrea De Lei
Echoing Carolines questions.... Those using covid time, are you doing it like 2 hours each day, so ideally working 6 hours a day? Or using like a full day to week?
Sarah Schrenk
Here, salaried employees are considered "at work" if we work any amount of hours during a day. So it doesn't have to be eight hours and that is helpful. I do work evenings and weekends just to get stuff done in quiet or when my husband can take care of our daughter. If we don't work we note Admin Leave on our timesheet (and still get paid). However, I feel pressure to do some work every day to show I'm working.
Stefani Plummer
No they can take vacation, but if they aren't going to travel, they should just retract to not lose the time.
Sarah Schrenk
Age 6:
Jamie Grenoble
I'm still working as much as I can because honestly after our staff meeting last week I'm not sure how much longer we will have work to do or our positions. There are 9 weeks left in the semester and everything is so up in the air about when/if we can open again.
Shari Landmark
You still need to take care of yourself. Your facility and program will not fold if you take a day or two off. If you don't take care of yourself, you can't take care of others.
Larissa Brown
Before Daycare closed, I took a picture of their daily activity chart. I try to implement it when I can.
Kristi Shiver
outschool.com, online virtual tours of museums and aquariums, scholastic.com vooks.com, gonoodle.com, cosmic yoga for kids (4 year old)
Caroline Dotts
https://drive.google.com/file/d/1wXpv9T4sQZnlIkJPJZ5lvRvLewSYwf4k/view?usp=sharing
Rachael Decker
Yes Shari!!
Kayela Tidrick
I was previously on parental leave until the end of the semester, however with everything going on my HR department recommended going off of the leave to save vacation/sick time. We do not have any paid leave so all parental/FMLA we are required to take sick/vacation time.
Caroline Dotts
yes, Shari, agreed!
Rachael Decker
Yes, I have asked our teachers to send an example of their daily schedule so I know what time they're used to doing what activity
Drew - Plymouth State
6&9 - Work time has been pretty fluid but the break times have been more structured so they have something to look forward to. We always do something active at 11:30 so I can say just X more minutes until football, outside, etc. and 3pm is always stop time for the Cincinnati Zoo Facebook Live Presentations.
Brian Beam
2 year old, time with mommy, separate time with daddy, easel for artwork, runs around the yard and the house, TV when we both cannot be attentive, our 2 cats and all the toys help too...
Caroline Dotts
wow kayela - that's rough!!!
Elizabeth Lasker
I have a kindergartener and 2nd grade - Khan academy, prodigy (math), Epic(reading), school just started google classrooms. Supplement with worksheets if sent home from school.
Caroline Dotts
It's in the google doc, too (Miss Megan's Camp)
Jess Wagner
can you address how parents with kids (regardless of age) help children who have an IEP and normally get special education help during the school day. my 8th grader has an IEP and he gets help in two of his subjects, he is not self-sufficient in those two subjects so how are others navigating helping kids that have extra needs?
Chad Caldwell
Our schedule is tablet time in the morning during breakfast (gives us time to work/workout) outside time following this (working and checking emails from phone but mainly playtime burn out the kid) snack time mom/dad worktime free play or art play inside (we work taking shifts here) nap time is get stuff done time for mom and dad. then up from nap play and get dinner ready then work day is done. really tag teaming entertaining our 3 y/o
Clint Jones
Sounds like we're in the same boat April. Trying to do worksheets daily and learning letters/numbers with the almost 5 year old. Still working on shapes, animals, and potty training with the almost 3yr old. Very different levels of learning right now.
Jamie Grenoble
I'm home alone with 2 kids under 5 and I try to get as much done as I can during nap times. Longer video meetings can be a challenge but I can usually get things done. I also bought finger paints and art supplies for my 4 year old to play with when my 1 year old is sleeping.
Janice DeMonsi
Middle school age is no fun at this time - he has school work BUT then does not want to do anything else that is academic so during meetings he has found to love extra you tube.....
Justina #letsmoveuvm
I can't see a file?
Caroline Dotts
https://drive.google.com/file/d/1wXpv9T4sQZnlIkJPJZ5lvRvLewSYwf4k/view?usp=sharing
Janice DeMonsi
We have an 504 & the school counselor has reached out for zoom time. I would contact the school about zoom calls. They have to give you your required time.
Janice DeMonsi
They are required to provide you the same services. Call the district office
Kathy Obuszewski
My sister is a teacher and they said that their district chose not to
Jess Wagner
perfect! thank you!
Kaitlin Ganss
7 ( first grade) and 4 (preschool)
-wake up, eat, ACTUALLY GET READY!
-some devotional time from our local church (videos, music, stories, etc.)
-active time (walk, bike ride, go noodles, yoga)
-school time
-structured play and imaginative time ( Legos, pretend play, puzzles, etc)
-lunch
-chore
-outside time
-rest/nap time
-educational website/game play
we base this all on times that work for our day
Kathy Obuszewski
have assignments because of those who are special needs might not be able to have access
Caroline Dotts
thanks Kaitlin
Kaitlin Ganss
I work for our local DD agency and there are loads of resources as far as social stories, online engagement, etc. that can be utilized for kids struggling
Staci Snyder
One thing I did was to get the daily schedule from our preschool and I have been trying to do similar activities while at home... may not be around the same timeframe, but keeping up with that she was doing there. I also let mu daughter pick one "special" activity that we do each day where she has my full attention. Today we are making rice krispy treats... sometimes it is doing sidewalk chalk or having a tea party. Its giving her something to look forward to each day and she knows mommy has to do a little work first... and then we get to do her activity
Caroline Dotts
Is anyone NOT on a schedule?
Jami Brossette
Same April!!!
Dean Bowen
still paying or daycare as well... =/
Clint Jones
Same April!
Caroline Dotts
we are still paying as well
Larissa Brown
we also kept our kiddo in daycare until it closed
Rachael Decker
We are NOT on a schedule :)
Rachel O'Mara
We are not on a schedule at all. It's totally different every day!
Earl Cabellon
I feel you April!
Sara Luelloff
We are in the same boat, still paying for daycare while child is home. I was torn about canceling and trying to get back in later, but don't want to lose spot.
Erin Sanders
We have a very LOOSE schedule...
Chris Schmoldt
daycare is closed, we are still paying
Natalie Hawkins
No daycare services, daycare is closed, no tuition is being charged
Mary Catherine Martinez
Our daycare is also still charging (and open, but more restricted than usual)
Blake Simpfenderfer
Vermont is asking people to still pay. However, they are offering assistance for those who can't pay since there is such a MASSIVE shortage
Jamie Grenoble
Both my kids are in daycare as well and we have them home for the week. We are paying 1/2 while we are gone.
Brian Beam
Our daycare was part of the university so they closed with everything else and we are getting a refund...
Andrea De Lei
Has peoples schools provided them with schedules and learning material while away? Our school did send the kids home with their ipad/laptop BUT they are not offering online schooling because they cannot meet the needs of all the students (Internet/ disabilities, etc.) but expected to take the state tests in May
Rachael Decker
We let our kids choose in the morning. whether they want to do their school work first or play first
Rachel O'Mara
Daycare is closed, but charging 25% weekly tuition per week to hold your spot, but this will be applied to tuition when they reopen.
Alyssa O'Keefe
We unenrolled our child from daycare. A lot of guilt around it but a lot of parents did. Administrators were very understanding and told us not to worry about reenrolling. Ours is staying open to support healthcare workers' children, so children that are not always there so they are still getting paid.
Jami Brossette
Still paying but he is staying at home.
Justina #letsmoveuvm
In Vermont we are paying for daycare, they have been closed for 2 weeks. Starting April 6 the state is going to pay 50% we have to pay 50% to hold our spot until they reopen. Our son is going to K next fall so we are debating removing him from daycare. It's tough.
Janice DeMonsi
In California they have canceled all the May state testing. There is no way to regulate that at home I believe is why it is canceled.
Dana Lopez
Fortunate enough for the daycare to tell us to do what we need to do. They are only charging the days you take the kiddos. So in 2 weeks they have went one day. We may go to two days a week for the duration of Covid just so I can get a little extra time with them.
Mike Przydzial
Still paying. Too risky to unenroll him and lose our spot. It's a family-owned small business as well. Just feel like it's the right thing to do unless they close their doors.
Brittany Rejda
Our childcare center is closed except for essential personnel but we are currently still paying to hold our spot and to make sure that workers are being paid because it's a nonprofit
Nicole Turner
Our daycare is closed and they put tuition on hold until they reopen, but we hired one of the teachers to nanny 2 days per week for us for the same tuition price... only get two days but its helpful
Sarah Schrenk
Andrea, we haven't gotten school assignments/materials yet, but this week is Spring Break. The teachers are using this week to prepare and we'll start next week. School year ends May 20.
Michelle Harvey
Ours isn't open but what we did was send emt to his teachers via email because they are out of work.
Mary Catherine Martinez
on days my daughter is not at daycare, (she's 4) we are not on a real schedule at all. It works in my favor that she isn't in school with homework. Home should be fun, imo. at least more fun than "work" when you're a kid.
Stefani Plummer
It's totally OK to make it easier for US to help them be set up for success!
Caroline Dotts
https://drive.google.com/file/d/1wXpv9T4sQZnlIkJPJZ5lvRvLewSYwf4k/view?usp=sharing
Natalie Hawkins
love the parent discussion…YES
Erin Sanders
helpful! Yes, please!
Larissa Brown
Yes
Blake Simpfenderfer
YES!
Stefani Plummer
yes, helpful!
Chris Schmoldt
yes, please
Lori Tyson-Jamison
Yes please
Jennifer Wood
YES
Rob Cornetta
yes!
Katie Gerstemeier
Yes!
Rachel O'Mara
YES, please!
Kristi Shiver
YES
Amanda Reardon
yes, please
Sarah Schrenk
Yes!
Mike Przydzial
Yes
Shari Landmark
yes
Staci Snyder
Yes! This was great
Whitney Boroski
yes!
Brittany Rejda
yes, please
Drew - Plymouth State
Y’all did great. Let’s do it again.
Sarah Snyder
YES
Kaitlin Ganss
yes!!!
Elizabeth Lasker
yes
Pixel 2 XL
Yes :)
Rachael Garrett Canfield
yes!
Brian Beam
Yep...
Barbara Zackowski
Yes, please
Jami Brossette
yes!
Jeffrey Schmitt
yes
Chris Wermie
YEs
Jenny Welnick
yes - thank you!
Clint Jones
Yes!
Janice DeMonsi
I think this has been great and I think it would be great to get together in another month! I think we need to keep checking in on one another at this time.
Earl Cabellon
Yes!
Sara Luelloff
yes, thank you!
Mitch Wiltbank
YEs
Faith DeNardo
Yes - thank you!
Jamie Grenoble
Yes!
Ashley Artist - Iowa State
Nice to know we are all experiencing the same struggles!! Thank you!
Brian Beam
Possibly specific age range sessions?
Janice DeMonsi
As an extrovert - this is hard for me.....
Dean Bowen
yes- bring your kids to the zoom call, let them chat :)
Caroline Dotts
JANICE - SAME!!
Caroline Dotts
MY woo needs people!
Jami Brossette
same Janice!!!
Janice DeMonsi
I like the idea of age range sessions. I would love more late elementary or middle school ideas
April Lovett
Here's Miss Megan's Camp Kindergarten link: https://www.facebook.com/groups/510772009639053/
Kelli Rockwell
Yes! I need to talk to people! I love my husband, but I like other adults too!!
April Lovett
Great for ages 3-6
Caroline Dotts
love that idea for different age ranges!
Mike Przydzial
I support the age range idea
Shari Landmark
Yes, I have older children and are dealing with different situations.
Mary Catherine Martinez
Even for me as an introvert, I am hating that everything is closed and I'm cooped up with a 4yo all the time.
Chris Wermie
Great point Rachael
Katie Gerstemeier
A question for next time… how are you handling working from home with kids when your boss isn’t really supportive of the idea that you’re not focused on work 100% of the 8am-5pm day.
Kristi Shiver
Rachael - I have severe anxiety too! We could do one on dealing with anxiety during these times.
Mary Catherine Martinez
OMG, we started using Tik Tok a week ago! 😂
Drew - Plymouth State
Rachel - That’s a great point about it being in their history book. How we respond to it and make memories for them is going to help define that time for them! They will remember the fun times, the extra time together, and all of the positive memories. We got this!
Kaitlin Ganss
some topics I would love; how are we helping our kids cope with all of the information and changes?
Kaitlin Ganss
what is everyone doing for their own mental health and coping?
Brittany Rejda
I've learned that my 2 yo favorite thing to do is troll his parents all day...it's actually pretty hilarious as well as frustrating haha
Mary Catherine Martinez
Tik Tok was fun exercise trying out all of the random dances a million times. 😜
Jamie Grenoble
Yes! Hanging out with my almost 1 year old has been so great. You don't realize how much of their personality you miss out on when you don't see them 24/7
Alyssa O'Keefe
Thank you all! This was great!
Andrea De Lei
Thank you!
Earl Cabellon
thanks!!!!
Kristi Shiver
Thank you guys!!!!
Rachel O'Mara
Thank you!
Larissa Brown
thank y’all
Clint Jones
This was awesome! Thank you everyone!
Mary Catherine Martinez
Kaitlin - small hobbies to do around the house
Jami Brossette
thank you!!!
Brittany Rejda
thank you!
Stefani Plummer
Kaitlin...family walks!
Pixel 2 XL
Thank you!!!!
Natalie Hawkins
Waving bye
Staci Snyder
Thank you!
Amanda Reardon
Thank you.